I pity people who looks for a reason to love. As if there is such. We love people because we are capable of it. We love people because we love.
When someone finds a reason to love somebody, together with it, they will also come up with twice the reason to why stop loving them. They start to un-love.
Some find beauty, wit, physique, wealth, power, status, appeal, care, affection, and so on, and so forth, as a reason to love. But, what if the person they love starts to stop being the person we prefer them to be, the reason for loving them will fade. They will later be re-profiled so us to find an alternative reason to love them. What if we never find that alternative? What if we ran out of reasons to love them because the person keeps on changing his persona for us, for he thinks that this persona compliment us more than the first?
Remember, change is inevitable. We can't fight change. And, if we can't accept the fact that people change, will it mean them goodbye?
The reason is not the first step to know when, and if, you are in love. This is the first step to fall out of it. Finding the reason is like chasing the pavements, There will come to a point that it will lead you to a dead end. Metaphorically, the dead end is the close between the two of you.
I hope people stop chasing the pavements. We should start chasing for the rivers, instead. There is no dead end with rivers, for the end of the river is a start for a bigger body of water. They will end up realizing love's reason is beyond reasoning.
